15 Signs of Relationship that you must know!

Signs of Positive, Intimate, Deep, Happy, and Healthy Relationships. As human beings, we have an inherent desire for closeness. The ability to form stable, healthy relationships is vital to our mental and emotional wellbeing. In fact, research has shown it can even help us live longer.

For some people, healthy relationships come naturally. Perhaps they grew up in an environment where it was modeled to them by their parents. But for others, it’s something they have to learn – perhaps later in life. They may have to go through several less-than-healthy relationships to find (and form) one.

It’s important to say that not all unhealthy relationships start toxic. Sometimes the unhealthy behaviors creep in gradually. Relationships are a bit like bodies. We need to tend to them to keep them healthy. Sometimes a relationship starts to turn sour and both partners catch it in time to make amends. Other times, it’s too late, and it’s time to walk away. If you’re wondering whether your relationship is healthy/unhealthy, we’ve compiled a list of signs below:

15 Signs of Relationship that you must know!
Signs of a healthy relationship

You both support each other –

We all need someone in life who has our back, and knowing that our partner is there for us through the hard times is really important. We all go through ups and downs, and they inevitably happen at different times. In a healthy relationship, both partners will be able to take on the supportive role when needed (rather than just one).

You grow and develop together –

No one’s saying that growing as an individual in a relationship is easy. We all grow at different rates so it can take some adjustment. But a healthy relationship allows for this flexibility, because both people love each other for who they are, and want to see their partner flourish.

You resolve conflict successfully –

“Couples that fight together stay together”. It might sound counterintuitive, but research shows that couples who argue together are ten times more likely to have a happy relationship than those who avoid their issues.

You trust each other –

Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Trust involves trusting yourself, your
own judgments, and also your partner’s.

You communicate about the hard stuff –

Being able to communicate effectively is perhaps one of the most important life skills across every aspect of life – but especially so for a healthy relationship. Open communication allows for both partners to be seen and heard.

You have your own lives outside of the relationship –

Togetherness should be balanced with individuality. Healthy relationships have a bond that allows the couple to grow together – but also independently too. Keeping a well-rounded life outside of your relationship doesn’t just benefit you, it benefits the relationship as a whole as well.

You can be silly with each other –

Playfulness facilitates connection, and who doesn’t need more laughter in their life? Studies have shown that couples who are more playful in their relationship tend to have happier, more fulfilling relationships.

You’re tactile and physically affectionate –

Physical intimacy is vital – even where sex isn’t involved. Kissing, cuddling, hand-holding are all bonding experiences that facilitate connection and build emotional intimacy.

Signs of an unhealthy relationship

You feel guilty (often for no reason) –

you feel like it’s always you taking the blame and your partner never assumes responsibility when things go wrong. Feeling guilty for no reason can sometimes be a sign of emotional manipulation.
There’s a sense of not being able to exist without each other – this is a warning sign for codependency. A healthy relationship requires both partners to have a life outside of the relationship.

Your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries –

Boundaries in a relationship are important because they act as basic guidelines for how you want to be treated. Setting and maintaining boundaries ensure that your relationship is respectful and caring – and that you both get your needs met.

You feel like you’ve “lost yourself” –

A draining relationship does just that – drains you of your energy. If you’re feeling less and less like yourself with your partner, that’s a sign that the relationship is zapping you of your energy. You’re losing contact with your friends and family – perhaps they always complain about how much time you spend talking to your sister on the phone or they point-blank refuse to hang out with your friends. A controlling partner will seek to strip you of your support system to make you more reliant on them.

Lack of trust –

Some jealousy might be endearing to start with but it can soon turn sour. Trust is essential to every healthy relationship, and when it’s absent it can lead to paranoia and possessiveness – a major danger signal.

Your partner is possessive and/or controlling –

they may show this in a very explicit way (by literally telling you what you can and cannot do) or in a more subtle, manipulative way (“if you really loved me, you’d never question me”).

You can’t talk about the personal stuff –

For a healthy relationship, both people need to feel safe to open up and be vulnerable. You don’t feel like they’re “there” for you when it really matters – if you feel like you’re always there for your partner but they don’t – or can’t – return the same level of care back that’s a clear sign the balance is off.

Your self-worth has deteriorated –

Your partner should be rooting for you. If you feel like they belittle, demean or devalue you (or your achievements), this is a surefire sign of an unhealthy relationship. The relationship is physically or emotionally abusive – if there has been any physical violence whatsoever, leave as soon as possible. Physical violence is rarely a one-off, and usually signals the beginning of a dangerous pattern. Likewise when it comes to emotional abuse (shouting, sweating, spiteful language, manipulation, etc.) which can leave invisible scars that are equally harmful. Now you know what’s best for your love life, now be the wise one while choosing your perfect partner!

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Parveen Sultana

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References-

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-relationship#:~:text=Healthy%20relationships%20are%20best%20described,doesn’t%20depend%20on%20them.

https://www.joinonelove.org/signs-healthy-relationship/

https://www.verywellmind.com/all-about-healthy-relationship-4774802